Getting out of a slump and a Calderwood Cottage update
Hey guys! I wanted to be unveiling the finished linen closet in the Jack and Jill bathroom but it’s still not done. Argh. It feels like I’ve been trudging through knee deep molasses to make any forward progression.
Part of my problem has been my chaotic workshop. It’s been a mess since October when Julie and I finished our first “30 day build” at Calderwood Cottage. Remember that place? Oh boy! That place is a lot more work than we ever imagined! We’re looking at it as a really great opportunity to gain more experience than we ever thought we would need. So it’s going to be a great investment!
We almost completely gutted it and got a small amount of new framing completed in our first “build”.
The day before Julie flew home, we loaded up my truck and trailer with all the tools borrowed from my shop, plus new tools and materials we purchased for the flip. We locked up Calderwood Cottage and brought it all over and unloaded it in my workshop. (We left a path to get to the back of my shop and made sure I could access the table saw. For realsy.)
I started building some additional storage drawers so I could put things away and get organized. But then I told myself that I should finish the Jack and Jill bathroom before I dedicated time to building a better workshop. Then I’d flounder around, looking for things so I could work on the bathroom. I’d go into one space, turn in circles, looking at everything and nothing. I give up on doing anything and go take a nap.
In my Christmas House tour post, I told you I was feeling overwhelmed. I took a long break during the holidays and vacation and that was helpful. Since then I’ve been trudging forward. My slump has been clinging to me like I’m it’s life blood.
Thanks to a friend who dedicated 5 hours to helping me on Friday — my workshop no longer feels like “the pit of despair”. Chantelle loves organizing and she offered to help me with my shop mess. (She didn’t know what she was getting into.) Once we were in the shop, my eyes glazed over and I started turning in circles, trying to find where to start. She recognized that I’d become mentally paralyzed so she stepped in, took charge, and told me what to put where. And I was totally ok with that. Grateful, really. It’s a temporary set up but at least things aren’t just in heaps and piles that I have to dig through each time I need anything.
So now my shop is a million times better. The sun is shining and it’s over 20 degrees outside. I think things are looking up. My shop is clean and everything is accessible so I can find what I need while I finish the Jack and Jill bathroom.
I think I’m going to finish that linen closet this week! Maybe Madison’s closet too. Look at that optimism! It would be great if I could finish the whole bathroom before Julie and I start our next build on the flip house.
But, since I’m on the low stress train, whatever man. I’ll finish things as I finish them.
On the subject of the flip house; we were supposed to be doing our next “build” in mid Jan to mid Febuary…so that would be now. But Julie broke her finger and is wearing big metal finger guard. That makes it pretty hard for her to operate a power tool or swing a hammer. And plus it’s been really cold here and neither of us want to work in that.
So we’re now looking at mid February to mid March for our next build. We’ve decided that we’re NOT going to kill ourselves renovating that house so we’re going to chill out a bit on the work load.
We probably won’t put in 15 hour days 7 days a week. We’re thinking of taking Sunday’s off this time! I’m just hoping I don’t give myself any more concussions or new facial scars.
And definitely not bring any more mice into MY house after working on Calderwood. But the Mouse in my House is a story for another day…
You look and sound like I did following the updating of our house which included a new kitchen and removal of a wall. I did it by myself and by the time I was 95% done, I couldn’t (and didn’t want to) do anything else. We couldn’t even walk out the door in the garage, we had to change our exit from the house to the front door. The garage (workshop) stayed that way for nearly a year. I just didn’t have it in me. Yesterday was the first time I had stepped into the workshop and I actually found some motivation to clean it. And believe it or not, I’m happy once again. I’m puting everything on wheels and will clean up at the end of each day. Big projects suck every bit of energy out of us…or at least it did me. So hang in there and take one bite of that elephant at a time. By the way, I love your blog. Keep it up and do the things that make “you” happy. Hugs.
Girl! Just watching and reading about all you do has cause me to be bedridden. haha! I’m surprised you and your sister haven’t fell over, dug your own graves and rolled into them. 😉 You two should be SUPER proud of yourselves. You deserve it. Now rest up and get back to work so i’ll have something to watch and read about while I recover. You guys really do ROCK!
What a wonderful friend to do that for you. I’ve tried to be that friend but find that pride often keeps people from accepting help. Them: “Oh poor me, you don’t understand how hard it is.” Me: “I’m free tomorrow. I’m coming over to help.” Them: “What are you trying to say? You think my life’s a mess? You think you’re better than me?!?” Lol!
So see? Even in a slump you’re a girl of action and took that lifeline. Good for you. I’m the same way with messes and too much on the to-do list causing me to become unproductive, which leads to guilt and shame. I would take help in a heartbeat.
Can’t wait to see more of Calderwood Cottage. You and your sister are very inspiring and you do amazing carpentry work.
Sandra,
You are awesome and I love reading your blog about your life and all the things you do. I am hoping to purchase a house soon and do some demo work on it. It would be removing a couple of misplaced closets and relocating a bedroom wall, which I’ve never done but think that I could. You have inspired me to try, if I am able to purchase this house.
Maureen
This really resonated with me. Guilt free, low stress, just going with the flow…that’s my plan.
And I need to find a hobby that is outside my house for those times I need to disengage. I like hiking but not when it’s super cold. Winter makes slumps more difficult to get out of. I really appreciate your words and wisdom.