Getting out of a slump and a Calderwood Cottage update
Hey guys! I wanted to be unveiling the finished linen closet in the Jack and Jill bathroom but it’s still not done. Argh. It feels like I’ve been trudging through knee deep molasses to make any forward progression.
Part of my problem has been my chaotic workshop. It’s been a mess since October when Julie and I finished our first “30 day build” at Calderwood Cottage. Remember that place? Oh boy! That place is a lot more work than we ever imagined! We’re looking at it as a really great opportunity to gain more experience than we ever thought we would need. So it’s going to be a great investment!
We almost completely gutted it and got a small amount of new framing completed in our first “build”.
The day before Julie flew home, we loaded up my truck and trailer with all the tools borrowed from my shop, plus new tools and materials we purchased for the flip. We locked up Calderwood Cottage and brought it all over and unloaded it in my workshop. (We left a path to get to the back of my shop and made sure I could access the table saw. For realsy.)
I started building some additional storage drawers so I could put things away and get organized. But then I told myself that I should finish the Jack and Jill bathroom before I dedicated time to building a better workshop. Then I’d flounder around, looking for things so I could work on the bathroom. I’d go into one space, turn in circles, looking at everything and nothing. I give up on doing anything and go take a nap.
In my Christmas House tour post, I told you I was feeling overwhelmed. I took a long break during the holidays and vacation and that was helpful. Since then I’ve been trudging forward. My slump has been clinging to me like I’m it’s life blood.
Thanks to a friend who dedicated 5 hours to helping me on Friday — my workshop no longer feels like “the pit of despair”. Chantelle loves organizing and she offered to help me with my shop mess. (She didn’t know what she was getting into.) Once we were in the shop, my eyes glazed over and I started turning in circles, trying to find where to start. She recognized that I’d become mentally paralyzed so she stepped in, took charge, and told me what to put where. And I was totally ok with that. Grateful, really. It’s a temporary set up but at least things aren’t just in heaps and piles that I have to dig through each time I need anything.
So now my shop is a million times better. The sun is shining and it’s over 20 degrees outside. I think things are looking up. My shop is clean and everything is accessible so I can find what I need while I finish the Jack and Jill bathroom.
I think I’m going to finish that linen closet this week! Maybe Madison’s closet too. Look at that optimism! It would be great if I could finish the whole bathroom before Julie and I start our next build on the flip house.
But, since I’m on the low stress train, whatever man. I’ll finish things as I finish them.
On the subject of the flip house; we were supposed to be doing our next “build” in mid Jan to mid Febuary…so that would be now. But Julie broke her finger and is wearing big metal finger guard. That makes it pretty hard for her to operate a power tool or swing a hammer. And plus it’s been really cold here and neither of us want to work in that.
So we’re now looking at mid February to mid March for our next build. We’ve decided that we’re NOT going to kill ourselves renovating that house so we’re going to chill out a bit on the work load.
We probably won’t put in 15 hour days 7 days a week. We’re thinking of taking Sunday’s off this time! I’m just hoping I don’t give myself any more concussions or new facial scars.
And definitely not bring any more mice into MY house after working on Calderwood. But the Mouse in my House is a story for another day…
Right, the house has been there for 80 years. It can wait another month. LOL Thanks for rooting me on!
That’s the plan. Napping for 3 weeks after working like crazy for 3 weeks is not a schedule I want to maintain. Ha
I get exactly the same, where I go through this cycle of getting tons of stuff done, and then suddenly get stuck in a rut, and my shop becomes a mess, and I can’t seem to get the next thing on my list finished, and it seems like it’s dragging on forever, and I feel terrible, and guilty, and overwhelmed, and crappy… but still can’t seem to move on…
Through the years, I’ve finally figured out that a lot of it has to do with me loading up my schedule with too many tedious projects for a while. Usually, its stuff that used to be fun and challenging, but now it seems that I’ve done it so many times that it’s got this “been there, done that, don’t want to do more of it” feel to is, that’s just emotionally draining, and makes me have this huge wall of apathy and resentment towards getting on with it.
And I’ve found that best remedy is… to give yourself permission to do something else for a while. Something fun, creative, and interesting.
I know, I know… you have a million unfinished projects right now… you have responsibilities to “finish” this stuff. you don’t “deserve” to start something else with so many balls already in the air. But really, people who work construction full-time get WEEKENDS to spend on their HOBBIES. Even if their main project isn’t done.
And you working on your DIY and other projects makes you just as deserving to have a fun weekend as anybody else with a fulltime construction/manufacturing/craft/woodworking type job. Just because you work on your own house does not mean you don’t get to take a break from “should finish” stuff, and do some fun, relaxing, and creative work.
It’ll recharge your batteries to, guilt-free, allow yourself a break to do something fun.
So I’d suggest that you figure out what that thing is that’s been on your mind that you want to do after you finish the bathroom and closet… you know… that fun thing you’re finally going to allow yourself to do after you’re caught up with all the “should work on this” projects…
And then give yourself 2 days to work on that fun projects… before you get back to your “should” projects.
Good luck… we’re rooting for you.
Sandra,
You’ll get there when you get there. And we will still be here rooting you on. The cottage has been standing for how many years? It will still be there. The bathroom…same. But neither will get done if you don’t take care of yourself. Take the time if and when you need it. You are amazing with what all has been accomplished so far.
Maureen
I know how much a good friend is worth who steps in when you are overwhelmed and helps you sort that mess out. I am happy you’re back on track! Take it easy, that Cottage won’t go anywhere. After you’re done, you should still be able to enjoy the wonder of it and not only want to nap for three whole weeks, lol.